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i have one important thing to say here. it's at the bottom.
i'm back. lah. such excitement.
right.
as you may not know, i've been having lot's of fine screwing myself over this past week. probably because i wasn't occupying myself with talking to my friends online.
not having internet for a week would be just fine with me if it didn't involve not being able to talk to my friends. (or missing boymeetsboy)
right. important thing:
i haven't been writing in lj recently. reason being, i'm having very serious issues with being able to say what is bothering me.
and things *have* been bothering me. i *am* unhappy. i *want* to talk to someone about it. i think out what's wrong, what i want to say, what i want to ask, to ask for help. SOME sort of help, SOMETHING.
and the words don't come. at all.
it's the wrong time or there are too many people or i can't open my mouth and all i can do is stare.
and it's all bottled up. and just sits there and makes me unhappy.
oh, i do a fine job of pretending it's not there when there's people around.
which may be part of the problem.
but i've always said it's easier if you talk about things with someone...
and it is.
and i miss it.
even this is taking a lot of effort. were it possible to stutter and make long pauses in type, you would see those here.
even when i am being general, using terms much broader than what is bothering me, it's hard. i've been meaning to say something about this for a long time and trying and trying, opening livejournal up and almost starting to type and then stopping and freezing and not being able to say one word.
god, i hate this.
i can't talk now, at all, except for about inane things. i can't talk about my ideas, i can't show my opinions, i can't do anything at all...
i don't know if i'm asking for help.
how can this be helped? i can't see any way, so what help is there to ask for?
just... someone... find me? shake me, smack me, MAKE me talk.
but only if you're going to listen... if you want to listen.
i have to stop. i'm crying from talking about this, letting myself say something, from the effort it takes to MAKE myself say this.
god i am messed up.
i stayed up till 1 making apple pie last night.
no one wanted any, though my dad says it's delicious.
right.
as you may not know, i've been having lot's of fine screwing myself over this past week. probably because i wasn't occupying myself with talking to my friends online.
not having internet for a week would be just fine with me if it didn't involve not being able to talk to my friends. (or missing boymeetsboy)
right. important thing:
i haven't been writing in lj recently. reason being, i'm having very serious issues with being able to say what is bothering me.
and things *have* been bothering me. i *am* unhappy. i *want* to talk to someone about it. i think out what's wrong, what i want to say, what i want to ask, to ask for help. SOME sort of help, SOMETHING.
and the words don't come. at all.
it's the wrong time or there are too many people or i can't open my mouth and all i can do is stare.
and it's all bottled up. and just sits there and makes me unhappy.
oh, i do a fine job of pretending it's not there when there's people around.
which may be part of the problem.
but i've always said it's easier if you talk about things with someone...
and it is.
and i miss it.
even this is taking a lot of effort. were it possible to stutter and make long pauses in type, you would see those here.
even when i am being general, using terms much broader than what is bothering me, it's hard. i've been meaning to say something about this for a long time and trying and trying, opening livejournal up and almost starting to type and then stopping and freezing and not being able to say one word.
god, i hate this.
i can't talk now, at all, except for about inane things. i can't talk about my ideas, i can't show my opinions, i can't do anything at all...
i don't know if i'm asking for help.
how can this be helped? i can't see any way, so what help is there to ask for?
just... someone... find me? shake me, smack me, MAKE me talk.
but only if you're going to listen... if you want to listen.
i have to stop. i'm crying from talking about this, letting myself say something, from the effort it takes to MAKE myself say this.
god i am messed up.
i stayed up till 1 making apple pie last night.
no one wanted any, though my dad says it's delicious.
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takecare
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we can talk instead of having madrampantlesbiansex. i won't mind :)
actually, i'll listen. at the very least, i owe it to you for all the crap i've made you listen to. at the most, i'll listen because i care about what you have to say.
*insert meaningful song lyrics here*
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I'm around pretty much all day (fluid-like schedule), if you want to call me or get together or somesuch. I'm all for it. Hope to talk to you soon....
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talk.
::hugs::
pleasant dreams
jkavv
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i always want to listen. always. it can be really hard to talk about things or write about them, and very frustrating, too, so i am hear for you if you ever feel like you can talk. you can talk to me online, call me, whatever. and if necessary, i'll call you.
sorry if that would be awkward since we don't know each other that well, but i would like very much to help.
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and kidnappage... how much warning do you need?
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theatre is eating my life right now. *chomp* so i'm not around. in a couple of weeks after we open i'll get a car and steal you one night.
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i just read this now...lj=not loading.
i sing to you...*sings*
talking is good.
you continue to impress me.
onward and upward
*longhug*
i am here. pretty much always. literally, i do nothing during the summer.
please do. you've come this far, dont stop.