justira ([personal profile] justira) wrote2009-03-30 10:39 pm

I want equality in more than my workplace.

Found this via [livejournal.com profile] unfunnybusiness over on journalfen. Should be sleeping/eating/thesising but thought this should be shared:


I want equality in more than my workplace. I'd like it in the park, in the elevator, in my experience at McDonald's, when I get my car fixed, when I go to a fancy restaurant, when I want an abortion, when I want my birth control, when I walk down the street at 4 AM slightly drunk, and when I go to the fucking movies. Is it too much to ask that people recognize my equality at all times? Do I have to decide when I get to be human and when I get to be a receptacle for the male fantasy of "all she needs is a deep dicking"? Oh wait, no. The men get to decide when I get my quaint little equality that I'm always caterwauling about.


Yes.

I'm not familiar with the site this was posted at; not really saying anything on the topic there or the ensuing argument/wank, but... that one paragraph, that I like.

[identity profile] shuraiya.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
..............IRA ARE YOU A BOY in reference to the tag, lol

[identity profile] justira.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
WHAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW.

Naw, I just can't seem to handle being serious for more than 5 minutes. That or my tags are a defense mechanism against the kind of hilarious amounts of unfunny there is out there =P

[identity profile] shuraiya.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
NO I DIDN'T

WAIT ARE YOU JOKING I'M SORRY I'M DOPED UP ON MIDOL RIGHT NOW AND CAN'T DETECT SARCASM RIGHT NOW

also nice use of MY ICON fuck yeah it's such a good one ♥

[identity profile] justira.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
No ma'am, I gots girl parts. My penis tag is a way of being facetious re: all them men-peoples out there, because it really is pretty grand having a penis in our society -- compared to, you know. Not having one.

I secretly think feminist thoughts, I just don't bring the srs bzns too often, at least not while I'm at school. I get basically all the serious business I can handle from my various classes -- like my class on torture last semester. FUN TIMES. A great learning experience, but depressing as hell.

[identity profile] shuraiya.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
That's what I thought, you sneaky bitch. And I agree entirely, men have the power in our androcentric world and it's just like, lol, YOU HAVE TITS AND A VAJAYJAY? TOO BAD, SECONDARY CITIZEN ALSO YOU ONLY MAKE 80 CENTS TO THE DOLLAR.

I have more and more feminist thoughts lately, especially after my Women and Religion class last semester-- it was one half religious studies and one half women studies, and really was lots of fun and depressing. I try not to be too vocal or srs bzns about it either, because the label of feminist has such a negative connotation. 8( Your class on torture sounds about as fun as the class I wanted to take on the Holocaust, haha! 8D;;

[identity profile] justira.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I think my class on torture was one of the most valuable experiences of my academic career. The professor is amazing (and is on my orals board for my thesis, urk), and besides being a scarily comprehensive expert of violence in general and torture in particular (he's been called on to testify for the Gitmo trials and such) his main goal in the course was really to get us to think critically about the world and our assumptions. Granted, that's the stated goal of the entire school I go to, but usually in a pretty broad way; that prof really took us down to the basics and tore them down for us.

It's one of the great... ironies, or tragedies, of the women's movement that "feminist" smacks of a pejorative. Isn't that just sad?

[identity profile] shuraiya.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that's incredibly. What kind of university do you go to? I wish we had such classes! The best world learning or whatever class I ever took was my End of the World class, it was the shit. XDDD

It really is. It kills me that being a woman or that something having a feminine quality is thus deemed as bad or inferior.

[identity profile] justira.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I go to Reed College, in Portland, OR. We are a certified weirdo/hippie/nerd school and I will love/hate this place for life.

Currently I am in hate mode, since the rough draft of my thesis is due in um, four days. So I have a couple hundred pages of writing. And then the final draft. And then I get to defend it to an orals board. Basically I want to kill everything right now =P

Also the reason I'm STILL NOT DONE with, uh, VARIOUS PRESENTS I owe people. Also, I checked my email records and I was totally the last one to send an email! YOU DROPPED THE BALL CLAIRE. YOUR TURN.

[identity profile] shuraiya.livejournal.com 2009-03-31 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'VE HEARD OF REED.

Hahaha! WELL YOU NEED TO WRITE THAT HUNDRED PAGES.

Also, I'm a dick and I will send you an email. |D